“No
more be griev'd at that which thou hast done:
Roses have thorns, and silver fountains mud,
Clouds and eclipses stain both moon and sun,
And loathsome canker lives in sweetest bud.
All men make faults, and even I in this,
Authorizing thy trespass with compare,
Myself corrupting, salving thy amiss,
Excusing thy sins more than thy sins are;
For to thy sensual fault I bring in sense,
(Thy adverse party is thy advocate)
And 'gainst myself a lawful plea commence:
Such civil war is in my love and hate
That I an accessary needs must be
To that sweet thief which sourly robs from me.”
Roses have thorns, and silver fountains mud,
Clouds and eclipses stain both moon and sun,
And loathsome canker lives in sweetest bud.
All men make faults, and even I in this,
Authorizing thy trespass with compare,
Myself corrupting, salving thy amiss,
Excusing thy sins more than thy sins are;
For to thy sensual fault I bring in sense,
(Thy adverse party is thy advocate)
And 'gainst myself a lawful plea commence:
Such civil war is in my love and hate
That I an accessary needs must be
To that sweet thief which sourly robs from me.”
Line 1:
Don’t be ashamed at what you have done in the past. Let it go and forgive you.
Lines 2-4: Even those who seem perfect and flawless sin and make mistakes. Some are better at masking it than others but the flaws are still there.
Lines 2-4: Even those who seem perfect and flawless sin and make mistakes. Some are better at masking it than others but the flaws are still there.
Lines
5-7: Everyone makes mistakes, and there is no reason to hold contempt for
someone just because they seem to have a better life than you. Jealousy is a
sin in itself; don’t fall into a trap of your own making. As I stressed before,
EVERYONE has flaws, some not as visible as others.
Lines
8-11: Don’t avoid your sins or try to cover them up because that only makes
things worse. As I said in line one: forgive yourself of your mistakes. Don’t
dwell on such small things and leave them in the past. If you let them stay in
the back of your mind, it will only grow more contempt for those who you think
are “better” than you in a sense. Others can be better at a certain ACTIVITY,
but NO ONE can be BETTER than you.
Lines
12-14: Be kind to those who seem to be doing better than you as they too are
going through their own struggles. Understand their pain, even if they refuse
to understand yours and are not forgiving of you. In a religious sense, know
that God repents all sins in the end and that you just need to put your trust
in Him.
Perhaps
Shakespeare was going through a time of spiritual darkness/doubt at the time he
wrote this sonnet and felt that everyone had it better than him, despite his
acclaim as a wonderful playwright. I certainly have had times in life where I
feel that EVERYONE has it better than me- not even just the stars and celebs.
On the opposite side of things, maybe he was trying to offer comfort to those
who felt that way and remind them that even famous people like himself have
issues too, and that in the end we are all human beings who are flawed and make
mistakes.
I don’t
know how spiritual and religious Shakespeare was, but this sonnet to me almost
sounded like a plea to God. If not comforting, crying out: asking God to take
away his sins and the sins of those around him, to give him the graces he
needed to forgive them for all the hurt they had caused him and ALSO give them
the strength to forgive him of any wrongs he himself had committed.
This is
sonnet 35. It is one of the few sonnets Shakespeare wrote that was not about
love.
“So am I as the rich whose blessèd key
Can bring him to his sweet up-lockèd
treasure,
The which he will not every hour survey,
For blunting the fine point of seldom
pleasure.
Therefore are feasts so solemn and so
rare,
Since seldom coming in the long year
set,
Like stones of worth they thinly placèd
are,
Or captain jewels in the carcanet.
So is the time that keeps you as my
chest,
Or as the wardrobe which the robe doth
hide,
To make some special instant special
blest
By new unfolding his imprisoned pride.
Blessèd are you whose worthiness
gives scope,
Being had, to triumph; being lacked,
to hope.”
I don’t
even need to arrange this sonnet into different lines to get the point of it
across- I think it is pretty clear that Shakespeare is trying to say that even
though you may have something great, too much emphasis on it can truly make it
not that great. That is why (so Shakespeare says) holidays are so far spaced
apart- so that when they do come around, they are that much more special. Who
would want Christmas every day? Think about it. At first, it would be GREAT. A
feast, gifts, and a merry time EVERY DAY. But after about a week, you’d get
sick of it and want a normal life again.
It’s
like the richest person in the world. Have you ever thought what THAT would be
like in the hands of the wrong person? I’m sure that at first instinct we would
all say “Yeah, I’d love that!” But would
we really? How long would it be before we let our wallets get the best of us?
Humans have impulses that tell them to always have goals, wants and needs and
to strive to fulfill those wants and needs. If we were the richest people in
the world (and imagine for a moment that you are), how long would it take for
us to satisfy ALL of our needs and wants?
With
all that money, we would be satisfied- correct? No. We would still want
SOMETHING, even if we had no idea WHAT it was. That is why it is better to have
a moderate amount of everything and have goals and wants to work towards- that
way it feels so much nicer when you achieve them. Say, for instance, that you
have been saving up for an expensive car or TV. It feels MUCH better buying it
after you have worked your tail end off for it than just buying it with money
you had anyway.
Be the
one who has a treasure, but savors it for the right moment- Have the money to
get what you want, but don’t exploit it. Have limits and boundaries to you
compulsiveness. Don’t take life for granted, for within an instant it could be
gone. Take your life for what it is and nothing more. If you are a little more
fortunate than others, good. If not, fine- your life is yours to live and no
one else’s. I think that I have made good decisions in mine and savored the
wonderful and joyous parts- have you?
Maddie
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